You can do it for others, so why not forgive yourself for the past? The past is gone, water under the bridge (so to speak), but it is not quite forgotten. You might be feeling some guilt for things that can never be undone. If so, consider giving yourself the same courtesy as a human that you give to others so easily. After all, you are one of them too.
Part of growing up is making mistakes. We all do it. Consequently, we might have some painful memories that serve to prevent us from success in some way or another! We don't necessarily believe that we deserve success. We unconsciously sabotage ourselves and avoid the spotlight of winning. We make excuses and rationalize to escape from the very success that we claim to want! We sometimes forget that everyone is in the same boat. And, it is really never too late to grow up- as long as you are still breathing.
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Of course some people have been little angels their whole lives. You know the type. However, they are the exception rather than the rule; most people, author included, would change some things if given the chance for do-overs. Instead of letting these issues prevent us from reaching any goals, we can all do better by forgiving ourselves for being only too human. We'll never be that angel who lived down the street, so let's get over it and move on to the great things we are all capable of!
If you feel like a heel, a bad person who deserves to lose, consider this: You are going to die someday. Is not that punishment enough for your old, forgotten sins of youth and indiscretions? Is not life painful enough, rough and tough enough for all of us to be adequately punished for some past stupid mistake? You are what you are today, and it counts for something. You are what you are doing, not what you did. Learn from those mistakes and be a better person for them; don't figure you are doomed anyhow so why even try.
The toughest judge on the planet is your conscience. Don't continue beating yourself up over the past; instead, use those life lessons for good and pass them on to someone who needs the lesson now! Or better yet, go ahead and become successful and help many! A noble plan can work wonders for your self-esteem and confidence. In other words, you are now hereby absolved of all your past mistakes. Go forth and succeed, oh noble reader, and do good things in the world. Many have done it and so can you. So can I.
I want us all to succeed and turn the Earth into a vast marketplace of good ideas and people who believe in the goodness of the human spirit.
Forget about your past mistakes and call yourself human. Go back and make amends, apologize if you must; but the key is to forgive yourself, and to start now with a fresh, emboldened attitude for success that only a cleansed soul can truly brandish. You have the power to accomplish this and much more in your life, so stop feeling guilty for things no one can change and do something positive with the remainder of your precious time here.
Whatever you did, somebody did worse. However you were, someone was far, far more dastardly and wrong. In the end, your time here will be judged by how you handled the whole process, not a few human things that you regret. It would be much worse for your story, in fact, if you fail to regret and change. It's never too late to become what you could have been. Regret without change is only destructive.
If this reprimand reaches only one person and helps to cause a revelation of sorts, if one human decides here and now to forgive him- or herself and go on to greater things, the entire article has been well worth the painful admission that yes, I would do many things differently if given the chance. You can be that one person. Forgive yourself and be free from guilt, free from the past. Move on, move up in the world and be free to succeed. Don't be afraid of your past. Be proud that you finally outgrew your past, even if it was a troubled one. You are not alone.
Finally, congratulations on your new life! You can have one, you know, just by the simple act of forgiving yourself. Yes it can be that easy. Sleep on it. Know that your story will be considered by future humans and that one or more of them might be inspired by your courage. It's not too late. Forgive yourself for the very future of human destiny! If you don't, that future human being that I mentioned might end up going through life feeling guilty for nothing. Congratulations for your new, planet-changing start.
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